I certainly did! I had a vision of how I'd planned the perfect little get away. I'd been looking forward to it for weeks and we were gonna have so.much.fun.
Wednesday was Gretchen's birthday. Eric had Thursday & Friday off of work, so HE suggested I go down to see her Thursday night and come back Friday. He'd watch the kids. Sa-weet! So, here's how the night was supposed to go down. I'd get there around 4 and we'd leave to do some shopping, a nice leisurely dinner at Olive Garden (Yummy!!), maybe some more shopping and then find a great dessert place, stay up late chatting, hang out Friday morning and do a fun breakfast and then I would head home. Now, come on, doesn't that sound fun??? Yeah, I thought so too!!!
Let me fill you in on the real story. (If any of the following sounds sarcastic, it probably is!)
I left Indiana around 2. I was so excited! Headed down to see my BFF and go out for her birthday! Woot Woot! I stopped to get a large Diet coke from McDonalds - a great way to start my trip. I cranked up the Christmas music and just sang my little heart out. (I know...what a sight!) I smiled at all the truckers as I passed by. (Now that I think about it, I probably was giving them the wrong idea! I was just happy to be kid free for a while! They might not have seen that in my smile! Oops!) So, two hours later, I arrived in B.G. ready to have some fun! While we were sitting on the couch chit chatting and waiting for Paul to get home, Hope did a fashion show and showed me every pair of shoes she owns. She's so funny!!
Then it happened. Gretchen's phone rang. She was expecting Paul to call and say "Hello my darling Love Bug, I'm on my way home so you can go out and have a carefree evening." But, that's not what he said. At all. It went more like this "Blah, blah, blah...I won't be home until 8." I saw Gretchen's eyes get really big and in her high-pitched "trying to be nice but I want to scratch your eyes out" voice, she said "Okay. Um. Okay. Are you serious? You're kidding, right?" He wasn't kidding. So, us, being the incredibly cool and flexible moms that we are decided "Kids, we're going to Olive Garden!" I mean, still gotta eat, right?? Just going to do it with kids now. Hope was excited because they have mac n cheese. Pierce, on the other hand, was not so excited because this was the place that took "a long time to get your food". ;)
Insert cute pictures at Olive Garden
Cool and flexible birthday girl & her cutie patootie

Happy go lucky Tracey & my adopted daughter, Hope

Salad. Need I say more?? MMmmmmmm

And something fruity!! :)

I know, I know. The excitement of this night is killing you, but there is MORE!
We took Hope to Master Cuts in the mall for a hair cut. :) (Pardon me. I forgot after shots!!)

And to top off the Mall adventure, we checked out new eye glasses for Gretchen.
Um, these weren't my faves:

What about these? (Has anyone seen NCIS Los Angeles? The little lady on there?? Yeah, she's Gretchen's twin!)

And the winner is (Drumroll please...........)

Super sheik, super cute, totally DKNY! What a cute soccer mom, don't you agree?? :)
Let's see. At this point, it's time to take the kids home for bed so that Paul can take over and we can go out for some dessert.
Look at these cuties!

And, self pic. Same pose, different clothes. ;)

That's all the pics I have. The rest of the night was less exciting. I called to check in on my peeps back home. A little background info: I took Maggie to the doctor Wednesday after we were up all night together the night before. Walking the floors until 4:30 am = not fun!!! She had a double ear & a sinus infection. Poor bebe. Okay, back to the story. When I called Eric, this is what I heard in the background:
"Waaaaaaaaaaa"
It doesn't look that bad typed out, but over the phone, it was a screeching scream. A non-stop scream. Eric said she wouldn't calm down. She wouldn't let him sit down. Just screaming. I looked up at Gretchen while I was still on the phone and she said "You're leaving, aren't you?" Yes. The Mom in me took over and in the next 15 minutes, I was Indiana bound. I probably over reacted, but I've been there, done that, and know how hard it is to console a baby. Didn't want Eric to have to do that alone. I'm a sucker for my kids. A sucker who walked in my house, saw two sleeping kids and breathed a sigh of relief. I kind of wanted to kick Eric in the shin REALLY hard because of how the night panned out, but I refrained. ;)
So, that's how my FUN BIRTHDAY evening turned out. I feel thankful that I got to see Gretchen for a little while, even if we did it with kids & me choosing to leave abruptly - both not planned! But, when you become a mom, I guess things don't always go as planned! It's a wild ride, but one I wouldn't change for the world.
Love you, G, and I hope that despite the craziness, you still had a good birthday!!!!!!!
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